Alexithymia.

I think everyone has different ways to show or describe how they feel. Some are express it loudly. Some are quietly, like they don't feel anything. We can't change how they will express it. It is already in their personalities.

Those who express loudly, they are probably a cheerful  person. And those who express it quietly, they are probably a shy ones. But i think when a cheerful person expresses it quietly, it maybe because they have nothing to say, speechless of what happens, and not expect it before. And when the shy ones expresses it loudly, it maybe because they are very happy like none could ever imagine how happy they are.

I think both of them are great -even the silent ones. Because they still can feel about something. While some people can not feel how they should feel about something or can not describe what they feel and some people even forget how to feel something.

I choose to not feel about anything. It is hard for me to describe what i really feel. I can't tell you if i were happy or not. Because sometimes i feel that i am not, even when i supposed to be.

These are probably the reasons why.

xx

8 Rules To A Better Life. :)

Here are 8 rules to have a better life. I found this idea in internet. So i made these tips with some edit and make it more interesting. :)

1. Never Hate

Life would be so wasted if you hate someone. I know sometime, it is hard to forgive people and you turn out to hate them. But trust me, hate on them wont heal your pain or make them uglier. It only eat your kindness and hide your pretty smile. (:()

2. Dont Worry

Your worriness will only kill you. You become overthinking and it never good. From now, start to ACCEPT WHAT GOD HAS PLAN FOR YOU. whether it is good or not. But i bet, it is the best for you. So dont worry, be happy!

3. Live Simply

Hmm. Live simply? How? For those who like shopping A LOT. This may be hard for you. I dont have to explain. Well, life is not always about all the branded and expensive thing. Think again before go shopping.

4. Expect A Little

Hope is what you need in this life. But please... Expect thing a lot wont make that thing become good or true. What if you expect thing alot and then it dissapointed you? Sad? Depression? Suicide???!!! So, expect a little...... Because too much is never good.

5. Give a Lot

Give a lot is a great thing to do. You dont have to have money or any prescious thing to give to others. Your prettiest smile is enough. --if this is not work, well idk what else-- #forgiveme

6. Love Your Live

How can you enjoy your life if you dont live it with love? I think this one will solve all your problem. If you live this life with love, you will appreciate whatever life gives you. Especially when life gives you lemon..... Sooo Love your life, but love yourself first.

7. Always Smile

Always smile!!!! It is good for your within self. But stop it, if people start watching you and think you are crazy because you always smile......ALONE. And dont forget to laugh. It is healthy too :D :D :D

8. Be With God

This is the best one from all the good tips above. I dont have to explain. Because i'm so lazy to type. #forgivemeagain

I THINK THERE IS GONNA BE THE 9TH TIPS TO A BETTER LIFE. IT IS.....

DONT BE LAZY.

like me. lol. I also put these pictures above on my instagram account. Check them out and dont forget to follow me! Ask for followback. :)

xx Jan